Forgiveness
Thursday, October 05, 2023
In Ephesians 4:32, we read, And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ.
For me, forgiveness carries grief, just like death. Every situation has a plethora of brokenness that must be worked through. Sometimes forgiveness comes easy, and other times it takes longer. We all grieve and heal differently.
The process of forgiveness begins and ends with prayer. I always ask what it is that I am to learn and ask God to help me grow. Working through forgiveness, especially where there is no apology, is brutal. Often, we forgive and then are reminded the next time and the next of the pain suffered by the individual. I must work through it each time to stay in my foundational relationship with Christ established through faith. After all, he repeatedly forgives horrible, no-good me of my sins and still calls me his. To be Christlike calls me to do the same. I need him to provide my peace. He knows me better than anyone; after all, he created me and understands the best way to see me through. I rely on him.
The beginning of the scripture verse says, be kind and compassionate to one another...
God gives us this directive because when we are kind and compassionate, there is no room for situations that call for forgiveness. The fallen ones in the war between good and evil of this world want us to hang in doom and gloom with them, carrying our brokenness and shame like a weight, but God says no. He is there to help us to be kind, compassionate, and forgiving. In Him, we know freedom.
In His hands...