Today was a day of a little bit. A little bit of this and a little bit of that. It was a day full of nothing, but a day full of everything.
So many families are hurting with deep pain. My heart is heavy for them. On the other hand God has shown me many blessings through answered prayers.
I came across this picture and I liked it:
Today I am thinking about how we can be compassionate to others who do not fit into the mold with what we believe should be priorities in life.
Several great comments came via this facebook post: Do you believe that God teaches us through his Word to be compassionate for those in need when their priorities enable them to be in need? Is this judging? Who determines priorities?
I call it discernment
I feel we should be compassionate for all.We do not have to enable them. Knowing right from wrong is not judging. God gave us examples to follow.
I think we learn compassion through the experiences we face....that said, I believe God commands us to show compassion no matter the circumstance. Compassion is different than condoning or allowing one to wallow in their circumstances. Sometimes the compassionate thing is to make someone face their circumstance and make changes. Sympathy and compassion are not necessarily synonymous.
I believe that when the opportunity presents itself, we should always help in whatever way we can. He didn't ask us to try and figure out who is worthy of it. Christians are called to a higher purpose. Love one another and show mercy.
We are going through this very thing right now with a family member. We have ALL been enablers for this person for years and things are NOT getting any better. They are worse actually. I try so hard not to be judgemental against th...is person, but they evidently just do not want to make things better for themselves. So where do you draw the line? We were raised to be compassionate for ANYBODY in need. But it gets really hard when that person shows no kind of compassion like being THANKFUL for the help or showing any kind of sign that they are wanting to change things for themselves. So I ask you again----where do you draw the line? And are we being judged for losing our compassion for this person? Sad situation.
That's why I think God gives us wisdom. Enabling someone who never shows any improvement in their situation is not really helping. Acts 3:6 Silver and Gold have I none, but such as I have, give I thee. To me this means, I have helped you fi...nancially & now I can help you spiritually & now I can show you how to budget, I can direct you to jobs that might be available, I can direct you to other associations, but I have done what God directed me to do, now you must step out in faith and do for yourself. If bad health is involved, that might mean a different set of circumstances.
Proverbs 21:13 If a man shuts his ears to the cry of the poor, he too will cry out and not be answered.
The Sheep and the Goats Matthew 25:31-46
"When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his throne in heavenly glory. All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one... from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. "Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.'
"Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?' "The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.' "Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.' "They also will answer, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?' "He will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.' "Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life."
To let you know what makes some of us decide whether to "help" or not, let me tell you of one of several experiences I have had. We were at McDonald's with the Grands one night, a lady walks to my car looking frantic, crying real tears & I ...roll down the window and ask if I can help her, she gave me a story about having a flat tire, service man told her it would cost $8, she said I have $8 but now that I had it fixed he wants $15 and won't let her have her tire & she is from out of town. My husband handed her $7 and she thanked us, God blessed us. Next day at my job, same girl same story, before I could get back to where she was, a girl I worked with gave her some money and she also went to one other employee before coming to me. I told her, she needs a new story because she had given me the same story the night before....then about a week later on 5th & Joliet same girl same story. There are truely people who need help, who really have difficult circumstances & the ones who deceive us are making it difficult to help anyone. So my question is, if we refuse someone who really is a user, really just needs a bottle liquor, or really just needs some drugs, are we wrong for not giving? That's what I meant earlier when I said that we need to pray for discernment. I remember my dad picking a man hitchhiking on the side of the road and feeding him breakfast, this man was truly needy & extremely hungry. I also remember a woman coming to our church and we gave her 3 sacks of groceries, she said, "what! No meat! I need meat!" Our pastor's wife said "Honey, if you are truly needy and truly hungry, this food will seem like a feast with or without meat." That woman walked away without the groceries!!!
2 Thessalonians 3:10, “For even when we were with you, we used to give you this order: if anyone is not willing to work, then he is not to eat, either.”
For me I have to have the nudge of the Holy Spirit to know that what I am doing, I am doing in his name. Have i been taken advantage of? Yes. Can I worry about it? No. When God asks us to help it may be for OUR learning and not necessarily for their help.
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Today the Fresh Find is for the avid hunter, especially those who get mail. Way cool!!!